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Authenticity Is Still Key — and Lawyers Can Start by Listening

By Kevin O'Keefe on October 7, 2026
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“Authenticity is still key for smaller brands, so founder-led content is really important,” Leif Fry, a one-time successful entrepreneur who heads a fund that purchases e-commerce brands, told Corissa Steiner for an article in the New York Times Tuesday.

The translation for Steiner meant “smartphone videos showing the founder speaking directly to the camera.”

I really don’t do smartphone videos, but I have tried throughout my entire time on the internet to always be real and genuine in engaging my customers and potential customers. What I mean by that is I’ve got to do exactly what these folks talked about: authenticity being number one, and feeling like I’m speaking directly to people by doing so.

Authenticity works for lawyers

In the case of lawyers, whether you’re in a large firm looking to increase your status and build a book of business, or in a small firm looking to build a name and a book of business in a niche, authenticity works. Real, authentic communication with people, and doing so over the internet.

Most of the time, the competition is not authentic on the internet. When someone writes longer articles it doesn’t feel like they are speaking to you. Most lawyers don’t blog in a conversational tone, they tend to write in legalese.

When it comes to LinkedIn, things often feels like someone is shouting or boasting, where nobody’s listening to each other. They’re just looking for eyeballs.

Some firms measure success by analytics, whether it’s a small firm or a large firm. We’re not talking about authenticity in those cases. We’re talking about “come look at me, here are the numbers I’m achieving.”

Video, if you can

I would suggest that if you’re not using a smartphone and doing videos — and I do think that’s a very effective way to do so — get started. I plan to jump in, even though I keep saying I will jump in and have not.

I think getting on TikTok can be a really effective way. Just get on two or three times a week, speaking about one thing each time. Maybe it’s something you read that you wanted to share. Mentioning others matters. You’re going to grab an audience over a period of time.

Listen first

The way I practice authenticity and engagement with people, to build relationships and build a reputation, is I listen. I’m not talking about people talking at me on the internet. I listen in two ways.

One is I listen to what’s being written by people on the internet. It might be a reporter, it might be an association leader. It could be anybody writing a blog I subscribe to in Feedly, my RSS reader, and I also get sources of news in this RSS reader. When I reference the person who reported that or wrote that, they see me.

I also listen to what I believe my clients are thinking about, and I share that information with them. So I don’t feel that I’m broadcasting or trying to teach people something. I feel like I’m trying to listen to them at the same time, so that they know I care. They know I’m thinking about them first, as opposed to shouting at them. And they know that I might have something to offer them, that it might be real and genuine. They’re more trusting of me than otherwise.

So what I’d be thinking about, if you’re not doing the videos, is to listen first by following certain things and certain writings. You might then be following somebody you want to get to meet. That’s what happens to me all the time. People might follow something I write, and the next thing I know, I see they’ve asked to follow me on LinkedIn. So I know they’ve seen what I wrote, and they might be interested in the subject.

And listen in other ways on the internet, via social media and whatnot, so that you’re engaging with people in a real and intimate way.

Way ahead of the pack

If you’re going to listen and engage and communicate in an authentic way, you’re going to be way ahead of the pack, because it’s only 1% of professionals, especially lawyers, who do so. Most are going to be talking at people, not so much concerned with listening and engaging and being real and authentic. So you can really stick out compared to other people – and establish trust, authenticity and relationships.

Photo of Kevin O'Keefe Kevin O'Keefe

I am a trial lawyer, turned legal tech entrepreneur, now leading the largest community of legal publishers in the world at LexBlog, Inc.

I am a lawyer of 39 years. Wanting to be a lawyer since I was a kid, I have loved…

I am a trial lawyer, turned legal tech entrepreneur, now leading the largest community of legal publishers in the world at LexBlog, Inc.

I am a lawyer of 39 years. Wanting to be a lawyer since I was a kid, I have loved almost every minute of it.

I practiced as a trial lawyer in rural Wisconsin for 17 years, representing plaintiffs, whether they were injury victims and their family members or small businesses.

In the mid-nineties, I discovered the Internet in the form of AOL. I began helping people by answering questions on AOL message boards and leading AOL’s legal community.

I later started my own listservs and message boards to help people on personal injury, medical malpractice, workers compensation and plaintiff’s employment law matters. Though we were green to technology and the Internet, USA Today said if my firm “didn’t stop what we were doing, we would give lawyers a good name.”

In 1999, I closed my law firm and we moved, as a family of seven, to Seattle to start my first company. Prairielaw.com was a virtual law community of people helping people, a sort of AOL on the law, featuring message boards, articles, chats, listervs and ask-a-lawyer.

Prairielaw.com was sold to LexisNexis, where it was incorporated into Martindale-Hubbell’s lawyers.com.

After a stint as VP of Business Development at LexisNexis, I founded LexBlog out of my garage in 2004 (no affiliation with LexisNexis).

Knowing lawyers get their best work from relationships and a strong word of mouth reputation, and not promoting themselves, I saw blogging as a perfect way for lawyers to build relationships and a reputation.

When I could not find someone to help me with my own blog, I started a company to provide what I needed. Strategy, professional design, platform, coaching, SEO, marketing and free ongoing support.

As a result of the outstanding work of my team of twenty and my blogging, the LexBlog community has grown to a community of over 30,000 legal professionals, world-wide.

Publishing my blog, Real Lawyers, now in its 18th year, I share information, news, and commentary to help legal professionals looking to network online, whether it be via blogging or other social media.

Blogging also enables me to think through my ideas – out loud and in an engaging fashion.

In addition to my blog, I liberally share others’ insight on Twitter. Feel free to engage me there as well on LinkedIn and Facebook.

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