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"Boys will be boys" is not a harassment defense

By Jonathan Hyman on July 15, 2026
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The facts in Sharpe-Miller v. Walmart read less like a judicial opinion and more like an HR nightmare.

An assistant store manager allegedly told a gay employee, “Good—if homosexuals got any more rights, then we might as well legalize pedophilia and bestiality.”

Coworkers regularly called him “f****ft,” “butt pirate,” and “Jerry the fairy.” They mocked his walk, joked that he was “afraid to break a nail,” made limp-wrist gestures whenever he passed, and one even called him a “pedophile.”

Then someone drew a picture on the breakroom whiteboard with “F***T” scrawled across the figure’s forehead.

When the employee reported it, his supervisor’s response was to erase the drawing and say, “Boys will be boys.”

The district court nevertheless dismissed his hostile work environment claim on summary judgment.

Earlier this week, the 10th Circuit reversed.

The opinion is worth reading because it corrects several common misconceptions about hostile work environment law. Most importantly, the court rejected the notion that harassment must amount to a “steady barrage” of discriminatory comments before it becomes actionable. That phrase has appeared in prior cases, but, as the 10th Circuit explained, it is descriptive—not a legal requirement. The governing standard remains the Supreme Court’s familiar rule: harassment is unlawful if it is severe or pervasive enough to alter the terms and conditions of employment.

Those two words matter, and mean exactly what they say.

An employee doesn’t need to endure daily abuse if a handful of incidents are sufficiently severe. Comparing homosexuality to pedophilia. Calling a gay employee a pedophile. Writing a slur across a drawing in a workplace breakroom. A reasonable jury could conclude that conduct crosses the line even if it wasn’t constant.

The opinion also corrects several evidentiary mistakes that employers and lawyers sometimes make.

The district court dismissed comments about the employee’s “cat walk,” swaying hips, and being “afraid to break a nail” as unrelated to sexual orientation. The 10th Circuit disagreed. A jury could reasonably view those comments as mocking stereotypes associated with gay men, especially when considered alongside the explicit anti-gay slurs.

The court also explained that anonymous comments can still matter, remarks directed at others can still shape the workplace environment, and discriminatory slurs are not hearsay when they’re offered simply to prove they were spoken rather than for the truth of what they assert.

Perhaps the most significant part of the opinion addresses an issue the 10th Circuit had never squarely decided before. The court held that discrete employment actions—such as a demotion or termination—can also be considered as part of a hostile work environment claim when they contribute to the overall pattern of discriminatory harassment. Those acts don’t disappear from the analysis simply because they might also support separate discrimination claims.

For employers, the practical lessons are straightforward.

First, train your supervisors. More employment cases are lost because of a supervisor’s offhand comment than because of a complicated legal issue.

Second, never respond to workplace harassment with “boys will be boys.” That phrase doesn’t end investigations. It creates lawsuits.

Third, don’t assume hostile work environment claims require relentless, daily harassment. Sometimes a few extraordinarily offensive incidents are enough.

And if those incidents are ignored or condoned by management, don’t be surprised when a jury—not a judge—gets to decide what happens next.

     

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Jon Hyman is a trusted advisor to small and mid-sized businesses across various industries, helping them solve workforce challenges and defend against legal disputes.
He is a shareholder at Wickens Herzer Panza in Avon, Ohio, where he chairs the firm’s Employment and Labor
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Jon Hyman is a trusted advisor to small and mid-sized businesses across various industries, helping them solve workforce challenges and defend against legal disputes.
He is a shareholder at Wickens Herzer Panza in Avon, Ohio, where he chairs the firm’s Employment and Labor practice group and its Craft Beer practice group, and serves on the firm’s Board of Directors. Jon works closely with clients on all aspects of labor and employment law, providing proactive solutions to prevent issues and a strong defense in litigation when conflicts arise.
As outside in-house counsel, Jon is the go-to advisor businesses call when they need help with employee terminations, drafting policies, handling leave or accommodations, or navigating tricky internal complaints. He also brings deep expertise in areas like wage and hour compliance, workplace technology issues, and union avoidance. Jon builds lasting partnerships with his clients, understanding their unique challenges and helping them achieve long-term compliance and success
When it comes to litigation, Jon stands up for businesses in disputes over discrimination, harassment, wrongful discharge, non-competes, trade secrets, wage and hour issues, and union matters. Jon works with his clients to craft targeted defense strategies that protect their interests and aim for resolutions that support their broader business goals.
Jon also leads the firm’s Craft Beer practice, where he helps breweries, brewpubs, taprooms, and other craft beer businesses tackle their unique legal and regulatory needs.
Jon writes the award-winning Ohio Employer Law Blog, which the ABA Blawg Hall of Fame recognized for its daily insights on labor and employment law. His updates help his clients, HR professionals, and other business leaders stay ahead of labor and employment law changes that impact their daily operations.
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